All men have an inherent need to be the best; a fact that continues to ring true in the bedroom. But, how do you know your sex game is as good as you think it is?
The truth is in bed: is your lady reaching an orgasm? Or is she just faking it?
Here are seven signs that she has to fake her orgasm:
1. She’s Screaming and Overacting
It’s entirely natural to be vocal during an enjoyable romp in the sheets, but if she’s taking it above and beyond, especially during a supposed climax, she is most likely playing it up.
You may want to step up your game and include all of her fun zones otherwise, you may not get a second chance, or worse, a bad rep.
2. Straight-Faced Eye Contact
If she is making direct eye contact with minimal expression, it’s unlikely that she’s having an orgasm, despite her claims.
Women typically begin to writhe and squirm with ridiculous faces when climaxing. In fact, her eyes often close tightly with impending ecstasy or, if you know what you’re doing, the eyes will roll up and back.
If that’s the case, then pat yourself on the back. If not, get your game together, bro.
3. Steady Breathing Equals Boredom
If your lady is wholly relaxed and breathing steadily, she’s bored. If that’s the case, it’s not the orgasm you have to worry about because she is nowhere near one anyway.
If she says she is, don’t believe that for a second!
Reaching a climax will almost always come with rapid breathing that is erratic. If that’s not present, neither is the orgasm.
4. The Weak ‘After-Sex Smile’
No matter how good of a show was put on during the sex, if you are on the receiving end of a weak little smile in the aftermath: she did NOT have an orgasm.
A woman will often still be filled with adrenaline from having an orgasm so, if she’s not always slightly excited and trying to gather herself, chances are she didn’t get hers. The weak smile is just her way of not making you feel bad.
5. Her Clitoris is Still Swollen
First and foremost, you can avoid a fake orgasm if you pay attention to that all-important clitoris.
Physically, a woman’s fun parts will become swollen when sexually excited, and it is indeed necessary for her to climax. If it seems just normal or still swollen, she hasn’t had an orgasm. The clitoris often retracts for a few minutes after she has had an orgasm so if it’s still there, she never got “there” either.
6. Says Practically Nothing Afterwards
A silent woman after sex is a disappointed one.
She may have claimed to have had one but, for most women that is, silence afterward is a definite sign she had to fake it. You’d be wise to rise to the challenge and figure out a way to better please her. Warming up that engine with some foreplay is highly recommended fellas.
7. She Only Orgasms at the End When You Do
No one likes to be put under pressure, but if you are always asking her if she has come or not, she’s going to feel stressed and be unable to reach one.
This, in turn, will lead her to panic and swoop in at the end with a fake-O while you are entering yours. Fix this with less talk and more action.
It’s not the end of the world when a woman fakes it with you. There are plenty of ways to avoid her having to resort to that and, honestly, a lot of it has to do with a woman’s other body parts. Sure, they receive plenty of pleasure from the penetration part of sex and including all her other sexual parts (i.e., clitoris, breasts, etc.) would be a MAJOR improvement and receive a warm welcome on her end.
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About the Author: Stephanie Tanner is a stay at home mother dedicated to writing on every subject she can get my hands on. Learning, writing, and being a great parent is her main passions along with cooking, gaming and staying active. Her favorite quote sums it up, “The only evil is ignorance, the only good is Knowledge” – Nick Traina