We are all fond of love, care, and some pampering when we are feeling weak. However, it is not for everyone to make us feel good about ourselves and many times, we just do not connect.
With thousands of questions popping up in our minds of whether they are the one, we need to simplify our search mechanisms before we turn 50 and still not get anything. It is a matter of prioritizing what needs to be thought of rather than does he or she want to have kids as the first thought. Well, if the first thoughts are on point, you will not have to ask yourself such questions.
So, how can you tell if they are the one?
1) It Feels As If I Know Them Forever!
It often happens that we cross over the formalities with someone and simply move onto becoming really close, almost immediately. It happens to everyone.
Sometimes, it may also not be true, so that is the reason why you don’t ask to move in within three days of knowing the person. But there is definitely a connection worth noticing.
2) You Both Have The Same Values to Share!
This in turn basically means to have a clear-cut understanding as to what both of you want. From believing in getting 45 mins of gym time to planning and caring for each other’s time off from work, you two will know what you both want and how it will make you two feel.
3) Solutions to All The Little Problems are Easy to Find
Well, seems to be hard, doesn’t it? This is another sign. If a problem strikes, the solution will be easily available right there and then where you or the other might be sacrificing partially just to make things work out. In the end, if any such situations or decisions make you two happy, marry them! Haha, we mean just don’t let go.
4) You Really Mean It When You Tell Them You Miss Them
Let’s face it, we all might have said it without reason many times in fact and for many reasons we should not. However, if you ever feel that you truly mean that, then you shall definitely move closer to the person.
Also, Read – 5 Reasons Why You Still Haven’t Found True Love!
5) You Are Okay with Planning The Next Six Months!
One thing you really don’t want to do when you’re with someone you don’t connect with plans ahead. Even the next day. It could be as simple as taking a trip to Malibu after six months that allow you to understand that the person you are with, you are extremely comfortable with them and tend to stay that way later on too.
6) They Care About Your Friends
Oh, the good ol’ care about your friends! Yes, if they respect your friends, enjoys with them as much as you do, talk about them and don’t hesitate planning with them, you have got yourself a beloved!
7) They Praise You When You Least Expect It
They should never need a reason to praise you. We have all seen videos of couples crying after seeing each other on the wedding day, but that is just too cliched. The beauty of praise lies within knowing it when it is least expected.
You don’t have to focus on these signs all the time; they are literally very apparent at times, sometimes it is either this or simply no connection and that is when you must stop wasting your own or your partner’s time.
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