All of us are different. We all different flaws and strengths. But there are some people, who irritate us all and bring out the worst in us. They might not be bad persons nor have bad intentions, but they just cannot help themselves but always bring drama and negativity with themselves.
Spending a lot of time with this kind of people can bring you down and make you feel bad about yourself. It can even cause stress, anxiety, and depression.
So here are the 7 kinds of the persons you should definitely avoid:
1. The person, who judges you all the time
A little constructive criticism is not bad, but when they only point out your mistakes and insecurities, it is not okay. Usually, people do it to feel better and more confident about themselves. When they are supposed to be your friend, they should not make you feel bad about yourself. Try to avoid people, who constantly bring you down.
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2. The person, who does not listen to anyone, but themselves
They are rude and do not let you finish your story. It seems that the only reason they hang out with you is so they could talk about themselves. They do not even need any response, they just like to talk. So be careful when you ask them how are they doing because the monologue can last the whole night and they won’t be interested in you either.
3. The person, who criticizes your every move
Whether it is a happy news or a sad mistake, they always find something to point out. They are the kind of “I told you so” people. Mostly, it is because of their own hidden insecurities and personal problems.
4. The person, who always plays the victim
All the people are always against them and everyone else is to blame. They do not see their own flaws and cannot admit that they did something wrong. They will always blame others and want compassion and sympathy for themselves, even if they do not deserve it.
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5. The person, who cannot keep a secret
Be aware, that when they tell you other people’s secrets, they will most likely tell other people your secrets as well. Do not trust people, who are all about gossip and trash talk. You will most likely get hurt one day, so it is better to stay away from them.
6. The person, who is a hypocrite
The people, who do not stay true to themselves and change opinions and moods with seconds. They can be perfectly friendly with someone one minute and talk trash about them the next minute. You cannot trust these people because they will act the way it is most beneficial for them and they do not think about your well-being.
7. The person, who complains about everything
Being with someone, who only sees the glass half empty all the time is tiring. They will bring so much negative energy to your life, that you will start to see the world that way as well. It is very dangerous because these people can make you feel stressed, unmotivated and bring you down.
It is always important to do what’s best for you. If someone in your life is being toxic and bringing only negative vibes to you, there is no point in being in contact with them. It is much more useful to surround yourself with happy, healthy and loving people, who want only good for you.
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