Being in love is a wonderful feeling, and some people give their all to the other person. Unfortunately, not always do the relationship work out and sometimes it can hurt like hell. Only the strongest ones can learn to trust and love again, and it is a wonderful thing.
A girl, who has been broken before, tends to love differently. These are the 9 things she does differently than others:
1. She knows extreme happiness
She has been in love, and she knows how great it feels. She knows the butterflies in the stomach and the endless happiness for no particular reason. She knows how to look at you with her sparkly eyes, and she also knows when this does not feel like the ultimate love.
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2. She also knows extreme sadness
She has been hurt by the person she loved and trusted the most. This has thought her many valuable lessons. She knows rock bottom, but this experience has also made her stronger and wiser. She might be having a hard time opening up to you in the beginning, but once you earn her trust, she feels safe and comfortable with you.
3. She knows how strong she is
Because of her experiences and what she has gone through, she knows that she can handle anything that life throws at her. She also understands that you are not to blame for her previous relationship and the mistakes her ex-made.
4. She was hurt by someone she loved
She knows how love can hurt and how someone you once loved can turn their back on you without hesitation. She has experienced the terrible feeling of not being able to count on the person you used to. As mentioned above, this experience is only made her stronger.
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5. She knows her worth
She understands her value now more than ever because she was treated without respect in the last relationship. This has taught her what she does not want to have, so now she only chooses partners, who value her more than anything.
6. She is guarded
She is protective of herself. She does not open up to you quickly nor trust you in the beginning. That is okay; she is just trying to look out for herself. You need to earn her trust and make her feel safe. Once you do, she will be very thankful and will treasure you forever.
7. She needs time
She needs time to adapt and to feel safe around you. Do not push her into something she is not ready to do. She will commit to you when it feels right for her. Do not give up on her, because she just needs a bit more time, but the wait is probably worth it.
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8. She is not afraid to tell her story
After some time has passed, she is ready to tell you her whole story. She wants to share her life and experiences with you because she feels safe and comfortable around you. Your only task is to listen because she is not looking for your pity. Just be there for her, when she needs you the most.
9. She won’t be afraid to love again
It takes more time for her to open herself up to you, but she is not afraid to love you. She knows that you are not her ex and you won’t treat her the same way. You need to show her your true feelings and not play any games.
A broken girl is not unfortunately hard to find. A lot of girls have gone through some drama and trouble in the past. These experiences should not affect the future relationships, but only make them stronger and wiser. These bad experiences teach them what they do not want in life, which gets them closer to what they do want.
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