Love is an intrinsic part of our lives, but romance is not all that is accounted for when it comes to love and warmth. Commitment is what makes an unbreakable bond of affection, care, devotion, and warmth, and relationships are a way to sustain those commitments. Relationships are an integral part of both men and women.
Many spend the early years of their lives looking for the one, whereas many lucky ones end up with their childhood lovers eventually being exempted from all the struggle and tussle. This article, however, does not dig deep into categorizing love. This article unfolds the different zones where a man falls hook, line, and sinker for his counterpart – the female partner.
Usually, men from today’s young generation are looking for regular hangouts and a partner who is ready to be physical with them without mentioning any of these three: Commitment. Parents. Love. Theirs is more of a rumpy-pumpy rather than a relationship that is embedded in attachments and tenderness.
But sometimes, this casual love-making or the fling that most of the time a man wants to keep infatuated turns into something heavenly, romantic and full of love. And ladies, it happens when it happens but when it happens, you just know that you are not with the same person anymore.
Congratulations! He’s no longer your casual and usual Tim or Zach; he has transformed into a serious and genuine Timothy or Zachary who is crazy about you and the bond that you two share.
A beautiful sunset, a scooter and beautiful couple sitting by the sea shore enjoying the lovely weather and each other’s companionship.
Some zones where men can fall in love during a relationship with women are as follows:
1. A Feminine Presence and Emotional Attachment at Disposal
Women have always been the focused caregivers because of their innate nature of embracing things and people. While men may act like dudes and pretend to be those who don’t need women to sustain, they can’t debunk the idea of how effective a feminine presence can be.
Emotional attachment is the need of the hour for every individual to ever walk on the face of the Earth. Once a man finds the right person as his abode for his emotional rants and venting out sessions, that is the moment you realize that you got him. This is when you realize that your pep talks have become a source of sustainability for him.
2. If the Woman is Hard to Get
Men tend to fall in love faster with women who are challenging to get. If you are one of those sassy, smart, and brash women who do not give a damn to society, norms, rituals, and consequently men, someone’s going to fall for you because there are men who fall faster for women who are independent and who know how to carry themselves.
A handsome salary, a good group of friends, an awesome fashion sense and completely unbothered by her male counterparts – well, that’s the kind of woman a man can easily fall for. Moreover, if you are living in a zone where you don’t care what your male counterpart is asking or discussing, there are chances that the man will end up proposing to you.
3. Letting Him Be the In-Charge
The world has reached a stage where people have realized that the disadvantages of toxic masculinity are innumerable for everyone belonging to any sexual identity and there are barely any advantages to it except for the person who himself is toxic.
But there is one trait that is still found in men and their nature – the belief that they are meant to lead and not be led. If you are in a casual relationship and don’t believe in competing with your casual partner and let him lead at times, there are possibilities that he can start having feelings for you.
So, one zone is asking him to help you with tasks like loading and unloading, packing things, running errands, helping on an assignment, or just a casual conversation where he starts to realize his importance to you and in your eyes is the zone that can also make him fall for you. Believe it or not, men love to be deemed as saviors and messiahs!
4. Having a Certain Set of Rules and Principles
As much as men hate that lady principal of their high school, they tend to fall in love with their female partner with an equal intensity – a partner who is disciplined and who follows a certain belief system in her life. Generally, a man who dates a certain woman has expectations from her just like a woman does from the man that she likes.
So, one zone where a man falls for you is setting boundaries. When a man realizes that his girlfriend/partner has drawn some boundaries and lines and he’s not allowed to cross them, a trust is automatically built. And when your partner trusts you with something, the probability that he will someday kneel on one knee, hold a ring in one, and propose to you should not be taken for granted.
A beautiful honeymoon destination and a couple truly and madly in love. The bikes add to the picture, don’t they?
5. Not Jumping on the Bandwagon
It does not matter how much a man insists his crush’s best friend to ask his crush to think about him because if his crush is one of those women who work at their own pace and take time to analyze, he is not going to get an attractive response any time soon.
And this is that one quality that makes a man fall in love. When you are too easy to talk to and too frank, the chances that the opponent will have any hidden or apparent – in case he is too responsive – feelings for you are less. I know, it sounds dumb but that is how the male-psychology works.
Has Your Man Fallen For You Yet?
Men are different; they are unpredictable and love to be pampered. Most of the time they are just unreasonably all of the aforementioned attributes.
But it is not difficult to know what they think of you. All men share some primary traits which are naturally embedded in them. But as women, you don’t have to rush into knowing what your man feels for you. Give it some time and wait for your man to fall for you.