What is the first thing that you experience when you see someone that you are attracted to for the first time? How your body knows that you have found ‘the one’ to marry.
You may feel like some butterflies are fluttering around your stomach. Experiencing this is actually quite normal because this is your body’s reaction to the person.
There are times when you let your mind dictate who you are going to date probably because you know that the guy has a stable job and can sustain you for the rest of your life but what does your body tell you?
Does this guy still make you feel butterflies in your stomach years after you have been together?
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If yes, then this means that you may have found “The One.”
Are you curious to find out more? Continue reading to see the important signs to look for below.
Do remember that you can go to any doctor and ask if the person that you are currently dating is the one for you and the doctor would probably shake his/her head and smile a bit.
You will be told that aside from what your brain tells you, you have to listen to your body. It will make a lot of difference once you become more aware of the signs you need to look for.
Are you familiar with the signs? There are some clues that will let you know if you have found the one for you or not.
1. You are embraced in warmth
One thing that you notice whenever you are in the presence of the person that you are dating is that you feel warm and content inside. You normally feel like you are in good company.
If the guy you are dating normally makes you feel cold even when he is not doing anything, this is not a good sign.
2. You genuinely feel happy
Whenever you think about your relationship with the person, you feel optimistic about the relationship. You feel at ease and your days are brighter even when you fight sometimes.
You know that fights normally occur and you would not feel like you are always on the edge of the relationship.
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3. You generally feel motivated
Thoughts of the person will make you want to do things that you normally will not do. For example, if you have always hated exercising but the person will tell you that you can exercise together, it will be enough to make you move around and achieve your goals.
This is also the same for work. You may feel more inspired to work on the various tasks available because somehow, you know that the efforts are for your future.
4. You are completely comfortable around the person
You know that you do not have to pretend that you are someone you are not when you are with the person. You do not have to put up any front or act like you are tough when you are not. Whenever you are with the person, he knows exactly who you are.
5. The scent they wear makes you feel giddy
Whenever you smell his scent, you cannot help but swoon because you cannot ignore the feelings of love that you experience in the process. Just smelling his scent will be enough to make you feel happy as well.
6. You are encouraged to live a healthier lifestyle
A lot of relationships normally start with eating. A lot of people love trying out various restaurants in the start of their relationships but if you become encouraged to eat healthier whenever you are with the person, this is a good sign.
This means that you would like to lengthen your lives and live longer together.
7. Your intuition tells you, “They’re the one”
This is not entirely scientific but a lot of people always bring up that they have a feeling in their gut about the various people they meet. Listen to your gut and become informed whether the person you are dating is the one for you or not.
8. You feel a strong sense of empathy
Whenever there is something bad that your partner experiences, you cannot help but become sad in the process. Whatever your partner feels, you feel too and you are not forcing yourself to do it. You just feel it.
When you see your partner in any discomfort, it is enough to make you feel a wave of emotions.
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9. They turns you on
If they can always let you feel passionate even after all the years of being together, this means that you have already gone through the infatuation stage and you still feel highly attracted towards each other. Chances are you would like to keep him around for always.
10. You feel comfortable cuddling
When a couple cuddles with each other, this is a sure sign that they are comfortable with each other. If you can cuddle with the person that you are with, this means that you feel right at home with your partner.
11. You normally feel calm when the person is around
Whenever you are together, this is a sense of calmness that you know you cannot experience with someone else. You do feel more relaxed when you are together and you know that it will not be awkward to be with each other for a long period of time.
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12. You recall moments you spent together with a smile
Whenever a date is over and you go home to your separate houses, you tend to think about all the things that has occurred. You cannot help but remember the moments fondly with a smile on your face.
You also experience all of the emotions that you have felt while you were together.
13. You feel the need to be with the person
Whenever you have not seen each other for a long time, you have the tendency to feel a sense of longing. You would like to do anything and everything just to be with that person. When you are physically close to him, you immediately feel happy.
Do you suspect that you have already found the one for you? If you have, then never let the person go. You will feel happier if the person also thinks that you are his “The One”.
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