12 Things Only Women Who Have Been Hurt Too Many Times Unknowingly Do

There are a lot of things that can change our lives. Getting our hearts broken can be one of the ultimate reasons why we become affected by different things. The things that we used to do normally would change. We make some changes with our behavior and our actions, but most of the time, we do not even realize that we have changed.

Girls will always show that they have already modified by making these habits:

1. We Tend to Doubt What Other People Say

If men are paying attention to us, we would immediately think that they are just playing. We sometimes assume that men just want to have sex or they are just bored out of their wits. We fail to see that men may be serious with us. We tend to assume wrong things about men who can potentially become serious about having a relationship.

2. We Do Not Have Good Things to Say About Guys

Even if there are some men who seem to have it all, we can always think of other things that will make them less stellar in our view. When our friends start dating guys, we tend to criticize those guys whether in our minds or we tell our friends outright. We may be accused of being “bitter” about the situation that we are in.

3. We Have Learned That Sadness is a Part of Life

Instead of allowing ourselves to be happy in the presence who may truly like us, we tend to accept depression and dwell in sadness instead. Coping with grief becomes easy, and it can be like a second skin. We may sometimes feel that we are meant to become sad even when we should not think this way.

4. We Feel That Romance is Something That is Fake and Funny

We tend to cringe when we see couples who are being sweet to each other, and we usually do not appreciate movies that tackle love stories. Some things that used to be romantic to us suddenly become cringe-worthy. This means that we do not think that love is possible anymore.

5. We Do Not Entrust Other People with Our Secrets

We have been hurt too many times that we do not want to share our secrets with other people anymore. We sometimes feel that when we tell someone else our deepest and darkest secrets, we feel that other people can use the information against us. Our hearts have been broken so many times that we would rather keep things to ourselves.

6. We Get Huge Crushes on Men That We Know We Can Never Get

Instead of crushing on the cute guy from the office, we would rather have a crush on a celebrity that we know we will never get. We know that they will never like us and it helps us protect our hearts from becoming broken again.

7. We Tend to Play With Other People’s Feelings

We feel that we can hurt other people as much as we have gotten hurt. Whenever we feel like we are becoming too close to someone, we would rather abandon them before they abandon us first. There are a lot of times when we play with the feelings of the wrong people.

8. We Do Not Take Love Seriously

Whenever our friends tell us that they can hook us up with some guys we know, we would rather try to forget about the different things that we can do in life. We have failed so many times in love that we feel that everything is a joke.

9. We Normally Become Flirtatious Towards Other People

There was a time when we would only like one person and eventually fall in love, but ever since getting our hearts broken, we become flirtatious towards other people. We do not care anymore if they would get hurt because we have gotten hurt one too many times.

10. We Normally Hook Up with Our Exes

We know that whenever the ex-needs us, we will be there for them even if it damages us further. We have already gotten hurt so many times that we tend to crave the pain that we can get from the people that hurt us the most.

11. We Do Not Want to Hear About Love Stories

Since we do not believe in love anymore, whenever we hear about certain love stories, we say mean things through our minds. We do not always say things outright. We laugh off the stories we hear.

12. We Sometimes Wish That We Will Be Loved Again

Even though we feel that everything is hopeless and our heart is already rotten, we secretly hope that we could find someone who will love us for who we are. We should remember that we always need love and attention. People may give it to us if we would not be too cynical.

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